Archive for the 'Mundanity' Category

Oct 03 2008

Scientists Discover “Religion” Makes People Nicer

Published by Shane under Mundanity, Political, Spirit

It took a team of scientists to determine that “religious” people act more kindly, generously, and honestly than atheists?

And the “catch”?  That they need to be reminded of their faith or they act no differently than atheists.

We knew that.  It kind of says that in the Bible.

That’s why the Bible encourages people to read it and meditate on it day and night.

That’s why it says not to neglect the fellowship of other believers.

That’s why there is this concept of “spiritual disciplines” which include developing the habit of daily prayer, Bible study and other activities designed to remind you of God and your relationship to him.

And not doing them leads to acting as if God does not exist - acting like an atheist.

So, now the logical question must be asked - if “religious” people make better citizens, why is it becoming more and more common to look with disfavour upon “religious” politicians?  Why is it considered a “bad thing” to wish to convince others that it is a good idea to follow my religion of choice?  Because ultimately, from a governance and a peace standpoint, it is better for society to have more “religious” people than not.

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Aug 20 2008

Reasons Why I Love Vancouver

Published by Shane under Amuse Me, Mundanity

Anyone who knows me well knows that I don’t really like where I live very much.  It was a romantic fantasy of my youth that brought me to the Lower Mainland.  It was a romantic attachment that has kept me here.

But, there are some good reasons to love Vancouver.  I won’t trouble you today with the reasons why I hate Vancouver.  Today is the positive.

  1. The Mountains.  They really are stunning.  Especially up close.
  2. The Ocean.  Being within walking distance of the ocean at any given moment will increase my contentedness factor by at least 30%.
  3. 4×4ing.  The forestry roads are a lot of fun to drive, even for a car.  And there is so much to see.
  4. All You Can Eat Sushi.  ‘Nuff said.
  5. Indian food.  There’s tons of it around.  Samosas in every corner store.
  6. Thai.  You know what?  The diversity of quality ethnic food in general.
  7. Western Redcedar.  The trees are gorgeous, the smell of a cedar mill is even better.
  8. Stanley Park
  9. Sunsets, anywhere along the water
  10. Sunrise on the Alex Fraser Bridge

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May 30 2008

He Must Be Above Reproach

Published by Shane under Deepness, Mundanity, Spirit

I was reading this book last night, which talked a bit about calling.  It got into what it takes to lead in a church, and one thing it did that I found especially thought provoking was look at the qualifications outlined in 1st Timothy 3:1-3.

The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. Therefore an overseer must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money.

I like to think I am on the way or arrived at most of that.

  • One wife - check.
  • Sober-minded?  Well, I am pretty serious most of the time.
  • Self-controlled?  Hmm.  Need to work on that.  I think I let myself wander into self-absorption more than I should.
  • Respectable?  Well, you’d have to ask around but I think I am getting there.
  • Hospitable?  I love having people over, but I think there is a missing ingredient there, in the sense that I don’t do enough to prepare my house to be open.  And I let “things” keep me busy.
  • Able to teach - I am getting there I think.  The more I do it the more comfortable I feel in it.
  • Not a drunkard - yes.  That is for sure two so far.
  • Not violent but gentle - only one person has ever angered me to the point of violence.  It’s been a good ten years since that one occasion.
  • Not quarrelsome - I used to be pretty argumentative, but I am slowly learning to rein that in.
  • Not a lover of money - I don’t think I’ve ever had a problem with that, but even more so lately, I see money as a means to an end.  I think of what can be done with money, not the money itself.

But you know what gets me?  The above reproach bit.  I think it is a call for personal holiness.  Man, I just feel very inadequate in that field.  I don’t pray enough.  I don’t spend enough time in the Word.  I don’t let Phillippians 4:8 guide my thoughts nearly enough.  When I wander off on the internet into “gossip” sites (which are more and more passed off as “news” but that’s no excuse) and junk like that, I can feel it sap my vitality.  It’s actually beginning to physically affect me.  You’d think that would drive me away from it, but oh no.

I do realize that I can’t overcome this stuff on my own, that I need to enlist God in it.  But you know what?  The Bible says flee from sin.  I don’t do that enough.  It also says I actually have to ask for help from him.  That I don’t do enough of.  So it’s my own fault.

I think I’ll quote the Paulmeister.

“What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body of death?”

Like Paul, I know the answer.  Now if only I would actually take advantage of that rescue more regularly!

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Apr 24 2008

I Knew It Wasn’t My Fault!

Published by Shane under Family, Mundanity

Four boys, no girls.  It’s the dad’s fault right?

Apparently, some researchers in England don’t think so.

It’s all about position.  Or the day of the month.  Or health.  Or the time of day.  No, it’s the mother’s diet!

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Apr 21 2008

Keep on the Sunnyside of Washington…

Published by Shane under Adventures, Mundanity, Spirit

On Friday the family journeyed south, to the dry climes of central Washington, once again for the Northwest District of Grace Brethren’s “So Great a Salvation” Conference.  It was our second time in attendance, and it was really good again.  The format and the planning are improving from year to year, and it is great to be with other believers who are looking to deepen their walk with God.

The travel up was touch-and-go.  It was hardly above freezing when we left Vancouver (very weird given it is late April), and the Snoqualmie Pass was getting snow.  Thankfully it was light.  Saturday was gorgeous for the outdoor barbeque, and airgames for the kids.  Check out this clip of a couple of our team “fighting” and my 2nd son getting a little too close to the action.  I was surprised to learn that our house had about 3 inches of snow while this was going on - even stranger for April in Vancouver!

We had nearly 20 adults come down from our church, including ourselves and I actually think one of the coolest parts of the conference came after it was over.  We debriefed together on Saturday night, and shared what we experienced.  It was fascinating to hear about how impacted many of us were.  At the same time, it was a moment of deep community and bearing of hearts, as several shared about their struggles of late and several others used the opportunity to kind of say goodbye to everyone as they would be moving on in a month or two.

Maybe it is the living so distantly from my family, but I find these types of occasions to travel with other families and observe their dynamics and parenting strategies lived out “realtime” to be intensely enjoyable and profitable.  It lifted my heart to see that my parenting struggles are shared by others, but at the same time see the joy that comes from your children lived as well.  We got to see it all, and up close.  In ordinary life, you try to keep your kids “on best behaviour”.  In the interests of peace, you cover up a lot.  But when everyone is in the same hotel, going to the same activities, and travelling together, you can’t keep the walls up, and that is a good thing.  Trips like this teach about the benefits of true community and fellowship better than any abstract teaching.

It is easy to forget these benefits.  I know when Cheryl and I travelled to Rwanda with Jason and Dana (and 8 others), we all came back from that with a new appreciation for living in community with one another.  It slipped away all too fast - North American culture really works against community living!  This was another taste, and another reminder to pursue community more diligently.

I took a class on Friday night that for some reason is escaping me right now.  The two on Saturday I recall pretty clearly so it may have been a fatigue factor there.  I had a class on marriage and courtship with Pastor Dwight Cover of the Prosser church that was explosive to say the least.  Every time I meet this guy I got more fascinated by him with his huge family and his considered, well researched opinions.  This guy doesn’t pull punches or mince words.  I took his class on discipling children last year and it convinced me I had to see pretty much whatever he was teaching this year.  Then I took the class from our worship pastor, Jason Strain, on Scripture memorization.  Very practical.  I will be working on that over time for sure.

Sadly, the trip did not end well for us.  Well, I guess it didn’t exactly start well either.  Aydan tossed his cookies on the American side of the border on Friday as we left, but got better by noon.  A couple others did the same on Saturday night from what I heard.  Cheryl got it on Sunday morning in the wee hours, so by 8am she was in no shape to come with the gang to Toppenish where we were invited to their Sunday service.  We hightailed it for home, through some of the most confusing weather I have ever experienced.  I wish we had taken a picture of the view from the hills above Ellensburg - Picture a plain that is half green and half white.  I thought this would make a great teasing shot about the Canadian-American border, but this was nowhere near it.

Next year’s conference will be in another town (I think Goldendale), so we will have to get used to a new burg after two years in Sunnyside, home of the late father of the Grace Brethren, Alva McClain and an astronaut (according to signage).  It will be neat when we get our turn to host one of these events.

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Apr 15 2008

The Not-A-Truck

Published by Shane under Amuse Me, Mundanity

So here is what I replaced the truck with.

I like the color. I wouldn’t have minded red again, but I like the burnt orange colour too. It’s a neat little thing. Its front grille and sharp lines remind me a lot of my truck. I love how it corners - it feels vaguely go-karty, though my wife doesn’t enjoy the sharp cornering like I do.

Its stats:

2008 Dodge Caliber SXT

  • 2.0 L I-4, 158 HP engine.
  • Automatic, Continuously Variable Transmission (no gears essentially. Takes some getting used to.)
  • 17″ rims
  • Chill Zone beverage storage bin (most excellent - built in cooler!)
  • 31/39 MpG (the most important consideration)
  • Airbags all over the place (front, side, knees)
  • Illuminated cupholders
  • A/C
  • Ipod holder!

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Apr 14 2008

Goodbye, Truck. Soaring Gas Prices Brought Ye Low Too Soon…

Published by Shane under Family, Mundanity

For me, gas prices have finally reached the tipping point.

It is no longer even marginally cost-effective to own my truck.

I love my truck, don’t get me wrong.  It has been my goal to own a truck since I got my first car.

My Dad always had a truck.  I grew up with a truck in my family.  I remember back in Prince George in the early 80’s me and my brother sharing the center seatbelt in a ride into town, with my sister in my mom’s lap.  No crew cabs at that time.  It was just a ‘78 GM Sierra, with a whole passel o’people.  3 on the column, so I only had to watch my knees when Dad hit 3rd gear.

I learned to drive in that truck.  I remember at age 14 barrelling down a dirt range road outside of Edmonton with my Dad in the passenger seat, doing about 70, when I realized the road took a hairpin turn to the left.  I slammed on the brakes and made the turn at about 50.  I don’t know to this day how I managed to keep us out of the ditch.  Dad drove the rest of the way home.

We used the thing for everything - hauling garbage, moving stuff.  Camping.  We had an old Okanagan camper, that my brother and I rode all the way to Thunder Bay in, looking out of that little front window.  That truly was the best way to see the country - no seat belts, we could lie on our backs and read comic books or look out the window or whatever.  This was in the days before seatbelt laws were as draconian.  Would I do that now?  I don’t know.  Traffic is 100 times worse now than back then (especially since I live in Metro Vancouver, and I grew up in smaller towns elsewhere), so I think that it is more dangerous not to wear seatbelts.  But I digress.

That truck meant a lot to me growing up, and I figured when I had a family of my own, I’d have one too.  Not from some status thing (though it probably has a small part of my image of an ideal family), but from usefulness standpoint.  The things I knew I wanted to give my kids pretty much required a truck.  From hauling camping gear to hauling bikes to moving garbage to the dump, I couldn’t conceive of life without one.

When I got married though, my wife’s family never had a truck.  In the early years, her folks played a large role in how we spent our money, because they helped us out a lot.  When my wife didn’t support me getting a truck, and her folks didn’t either, and my folks were 2000km away, then I pretty much had to settle.  I did manage to get a 4×4 though - another of my passions.

It would be 8 years later that I was starting to think about something else.  My wife always knew I wanted a truck, so when I mentioned, at a time when we had the money to get something new, that I was thinking about getting a little commuter car and a beater 4×4 for the weekends, she said to me, “I thought you wanted a truck!”

That was July of 2006.  By the end of the month, I had my shiny red Dodge Ram.  I picked Dodge because at the time, they were the only of the full-size truck manufacturers who offered the ability for half the cylinders to be shut off on the highway for cruising, for fuel efficiency.  And it did save me.  I probably got at least 100km more out of a tank than regular trucks.

Since then, I have done everything I envisioned.  I have taken it four-wheeling, hauled at least a dozen loads of garbage, helped many people move stuff, pick up stuff.  I’ve picked up all kinds of building and renovation materials, IKEA furniture, and lots of stuff that no way would have fit in our minivan.  We’ve gone camping with it, loaded the back up with all kids of good stuff and headed off to the hinterlands.  I’ve really used it.

But the problem is primarily, I have used it to commute in.  My work is 30km away from home, and half of that is through the city.  Stop and go, hurry up and wait, idle and burn gas.

When gas was 60 cents a liter, it was no problem.  When gas was 80 cents a liter, it started to hurt how much gas was costing.  When gas broke a buck a liter, I started asking questions of myself, but I still thought  all the benefits I was getting from the truck were worth it.  And I enjoyed being able to help people out with my truck so there was a community benefit too.

But now, with gas holding steady over $1.20 and we aren’t even at the May long weekend yet, I have to reconsider.  When I am commuting in the truck, I will drop nearly $400 per month in gas.  Add to that a $450 lease payment.  Add to that my insurance, already pretty much maxed out in terms of ICBC discount, which when subdivided by the month works out to $210 per month.  That means, not even including maintenance costs, this truck is costing me $1060 per month to run.

Wow.

Now, compare this to a compact commuter car.  I don’t think it is unreasonable to expect half the gas costs - most of them have a 40 liter tank, and my truck’s was 100 liters.  I expect I will get a little more km out of a tank in the car (that was true with my old ‘86 Hyundai Excel, my first car) than I did with the truck, so count on 3 fills a month.  That’s $150, maybe $200 if I have to do 4 fills.  The lease (or financed) monthly cost would be in the neighbourhood of $250.  Insurance will probably be less, though I am not counting on that, so say $175 per month.  TCO/mo = $625.

That means I will save the family $435/mo from a downgrade.  We will still have the van (which I don’t really like to haul stuff in because if things spill, it’s carpet and I can’t just hose it out).  I could always get a utility trailer, or if I need a 4×4 a few times a year (really, I have only gotten to 4×4 3 or 4 times a year for the last couple years), I can rent one.  The savings will still be significant.

If I wasn’t commuting, I could rationalize keeping it.  But given the primary usage, it simply doesn’t make sense anymore.  It sucks, because it represents the death of a dream, an ideal.  It will also effect my whole social network, who may not have relied on me for my truck, but certainly appreciated when I was there for them with it.  Sadly, they did not subsidize my truck (and couldn’t be expected to anyway - its primary use was mine and it only makes sense I should bear the burden for its cost).

Life could change in the future.  If I change jobs to something closer to home, it could become affordable again.  But for now, it seems like the best decision.

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Apr 11 2008

So I won this Ipod…

Published by Shane under Amuse Me, Mundanity

I seem to be really good at winning “most improved” awards. I won a few of them in high school, and now I am back at it at work. I won an 8 gig Ipod Nano, mint green.

It really is a lovely device. I have owned two other mp3 players and really, I hate to say it, but neither of them holds a candle to what Jobs has done. I see now that this thing really is a killer app. I can see why everyone is getting them. And I can see why the iPhone is causing such a stir in the States.

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Mar 04 2008

Ready For a Break

Published by Shane under Family, Mundanity

I need a break. Maybe it is the stress of last week, with the trying to squeeze some end-of-the-month sales out and going to school (4 hours of classes plus about 100 pages of reading per day) piling up on me, maybe it is the large number of changes I have had to deal with at home the last month or so. I don’t know. Maybe it is just that time of year - the February-March doldrums where spring can’t come fast enough and you feel cooped up in your home.

It doesn’t help either that we’re nowhere near the place financially where we can afford for me to take time off work, or anything else. That’s perhaps the hardest thing. But then again, for most people in the world, they are so poor that they can never afford vacations at all. And with the amount of time I waste in a day, I shouldn’t feel the need for physical escape as strongly as I do.

But there it is. I have had a couple of things pointed out to me. One - we will be travelling in April. We plan to be involved in the trip to Yakima again. That will be nice, but it will still have the pressure of a schedule and long distance driving, as well as wrangling the kids. Another - it was suggested I take my older boys for a short camping trip. Again, nice idea, but not exactly the retreat that I would like to take to give myself some space.

I say all this here because it is kind of off-limits to say at home. How can I talk about needing distance when my wife is caring for our kids all day, and she has a newborn to feed 24/7? She probably needs way more space than I do.

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Feb 12 2008

The Grad Essay

Published by Shane under Church Planting, Mundanity

It has now been accepted.  In point of fact, it was accepted last week, the day after I last posted.  However, the rest of the week was lost in a quagmire of competing demands, lack of sleep, and pecorino romano.

This week, my goal is to get the interview questions knocked off, as they need to be submitted for ethics review before I can use them.  Deadlines are beginning to loom, so this needs to be in ASAP.

There are two things I am hoping to gather from pastors and church planters in the target communities.  The first is  what they see as the greatest challenges in their particular context.  The second is solutions they have used to address these problems.  Perhaps a third area of questioning will be what resources have been made available to them that they felt were helpful.

Now to phrase them.

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